7 Biblical Requirements of Servant Leaders

Guest Post by Tom Harper

Becoming a biblical servant leader is a long, winding journey of faith. Along the way, we reach one personal growth milestone only to start heading toward the next. As we grow and mature in wisdom, we learn every step leads away from self and toward Christ. More of him, less of us! The seven biblical “requirements” below are intended to help you take your own next steps. While there are many others that could be added, I pray this checklist spurs you to chase after the Lord’s wisdom, no matter what leadership level you’ve already reached.

1. Ground yourself in God’s Word

Biblical leadership begins with a solid foundation in Scripture. Regularly reading, studying, and reflecting on God’s Word provides us with divine guidance, spiritual strength, and an eternal perspective. The Bible not only informs our decisions, it transforms our character so we can lead others in the direction of God’s will.

“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” —Psalm 119:105

Question: How often do I read the Bible?

2. Cultivate spiritual disciplines

Prayer, fellowship, discipleship, service, and sharing our faith are spiritual “habits” that keep us connected to the Lord. By making these disciplines a natural part of our routine, we’ll grow in faith, rely on the Holy Spirit’s power, and model a lifestyle that inspires others.

“Train yourself to be godly. For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come.” —1 Timothy 4:7-8

Question: Is it time to begin a new spiritual habit?

3. Control your tongue and speak with grace

Leaders influence others through their words, so how we speak matters deeply. A godly leader avoids harshness and gossip, seeking instead to encourage, bless, and strengthen. Gracious, truthful words foster trust, unity, and respect among those we lead.

“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up…” —Ephesians 4:29

Question: Do I need to be more gracious and patient with people?

4. Embrace humility and a servant’s heart

Biblical leaders don’t chase the spotlight. Jesus set the ultimate example by humbling himself and serving those around Him. By prioritizing the needs of others—lifting them up rather than seeking our own honor—we’ll cultivate genuine trust and loyalty.

“For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve…” —Mark 10:45

Question: When was the last time I let someone take credit for my work?

5. Practice love and forgiveness

Love is the hallmark of every true disciple. When our leadership is driven by love, we’ll approach people with kindness, patience, and understanding. As we forgive others—just as God has forgiven us—we break down barriers, heal relationships, and create an environment where everyone can thrive.

“Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” —Colossians 3:13

Question: Do I need to be more forgiving of others?

6. Use authority to build others up

Our leadership roles may grant us authority, but it’s never a license to dominate. Instead, we should use our positions to serve, strengthen, and uplift. Encouraging others and entrusting them with responsibilities not only develops their gifts but also reveals Christlike leadership that honors God and dignifies people.

“…the authority the Lord gave us for building you up rather than tearing you down…” —2 Corinthians 10:8

Question: How am I doing with delegating to others?

7. Seek wisdom and follow Christ’s example

True servant leadership requires ongoing growth. We need to spend time with wise mentors, remain teachable, and pray for God’s guidance. Above all, we should look to Jesus—study how he lived, how he loved, and how he led. Aligning our lives with his example ensures that our influence points people toward the Kingdom, the most important goal for any biblical leader.

“Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.” —1 Corinthians 11:1

Question: Do I actively seek to grow in wisdom, or do I just passively learn from experience?

As we practice these seven requirements and rely on the Holy Spirit’s help, we’ll discover that leading like Christ means wisely seeking the benefit of everyone we have the privilege to serve. It also means leading people into their own relationship with Jesus, helping them grow in their faith, and always having a Kingdom perspective.

Final question: Which exhortation from the list above will you work on next?

May you be blessed on your journey!

Wisdom makes one wise person more powerful
than ten rulers in a city.
—Ecclesiastes 7:19 (NIV)