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Effortless Part 4: Struggle and Security

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One of the greatest temptations a leader faces is to live for the applause of people. We long for recognition and seek affirmation. Leadership can easily descend into a popularity contest. Particularly in a digitally connected world, increasing followers on social media seems to preoccupy many a would-be leader (now termed influencer). This often comes at the expense of truly leading. Perhaps this is a contributing factor to the epidemic of leadership bankruptcy seen in the world today.

I have observed that the struggle for popularity often comes from a place of insecurity. Leaders can find their sense of self-worth in their position, title and influence over others. Many leaders, therefore, exert effort in the struggle to maintain power to feel secure in themselves, their vocation and their prosperity.

Christian leaders are not immune to these temptations. Unless our leadership is framed and formed by the cross of Christ, we can operate from a place of insecurity. And insecure leaders can be dangerous to themselves and their followers. They may exert a huge effort to maintain power, not for the good of others, but to fulfil their own lofty goals and ambitions.

In other words, insecure leaders struggle for security.

In this series of articles, I’ve been espousing a counter-cultural approach to Christian leadership that I call the effortless paradigm. In previous articles, we’ve seen that biblically-focused leaders can experience exponential impact as they work while waiting and strive from a posture of surrender.

Effortless leadership does not mean there is no effort. Rather, the effort is applied in a spiritual and biblical direction, enabling the Lord to bring about an abundant harvest which is disproportionate to our effort.

However, that does not mean there is no struggle, but the struggles that Christian leaders face emanate from a position of security, rather than insecurity. The security of Christian leaders is in the knowledge that God so loved them that he sent his Son to die on their behalf and, through believing in Jesus, they are eternally secure. This does not mean that life will be a bed of roses. Struggles will still come. Just because we are Christians doesn’t mean we are immune from the trials of life. The differentiating factor is that the struggles we face are not to maintain power or influence over others. Rather, the struggles are what form us to become more like Christ. And as Christ’s character is formed, then we become more fruitful in our life and leadership.

The best that insecure leaders can hope for is fruit proportional to their effort. They can struggle and toil and perhaps see some fruit for their labours. But at what personal and relational cost?

On the other hand, effortless leaders, secure in their salvation, struggle in a godly manner with things that have immediate and eternal consequences. They are therefore positioned to see fruit that is disproportionate to their efforts which brings much glory to God.

I want to close this mini-series of articles by looking at Jesus, the author and perfector of our faith (Hebrews 12:1) and the prime example for Christian leaders. There is no person in history who has had a greater impact on the world than Jesus Christ. His life, death and resurrection continue to have exponential fruitfulness around the world.

So, what was Jesus’ secret? Remember, he had made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant (Php. 2:7). He was like us in every way… but one. The struggles Jesus faced in his life eclipse anything that we face. From the temptations of the devil, the persecution of religious authorities, the betrayal of his friends, and his death on the cross, Jesus’ life was not free from struggle. Indeed, the bible tells us that he “endured the cross” (Heb. 12:2). This was no walk in the park.

As we consider him, I feel that the key to Jesus’ endurance was that he was perfectly secure in his Father’s love. This security meant he could face and overcome the struggles. Take some time to read John 10:25–30. Jesus concludes that section by stating, “I and the Father are one”. Jesus did not have an identity crisis. Nor did he suffer from an insecurity complex.

One of the greatest demonstrations of servant leadership (and on the eve of his crucifixion) was when Jesus washed the disciple’s feet (this story is the basis of my book, Grab a Towel). John introduces that amazing story by stating:

“Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God; so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist” (John 13:3–4).

Jesus’ assurance that his Father was with him and that he was returning to the Father meant he had the strength to serve his disciples, and the resilience to face the ensuing events from Gethsemane to Golgotha.

Jesus also had a perspective beyond the struggles. He anticipated the exponential fruit that would be the result of his endurance. Listen to his words in John 12:24: “Very truly I tell you, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds.” As the author of Hebrews stated, it was for the joy set before him, that he endured the cross.

As followers of Jesus, do we lead from that same sense of security? Do we lead as secure children of God not swayed by the opinion and opposition of men and women?

I believe this is make or break for us in terms of our effectiveness as leaders. Insecure leaders will constantly fight the wrong battle and struggle for the wrong things. Secure leaders will be able to follow Christ’s example and have a perspective that looks beyond our immediate struggles and sees the fruit that can come through faithful endurance. That perspective enables us to perceive our efforts and struggles as insignificant in comparison to the fruit that will result in our own lives and in the lives of others.

Very specifically, there are three struggles that all Christian leaders will face. We will struggle with sin. We will struggle with spiritual opposition. And we will struggle with self-centredness. The only way we can hope to survive and thrive in our leadership is if we are secure in our identity as new creations in Jesus (2 Cor. 5:17).  Then we will find we do not need to succumb to sin for our loving Father will always provide a way out (1 Cor. 10:13). In our struggle against spiritual attack, we can stand firm and resist evil (Eph. 6:13). And in our struggle with selfish ambition, we will find that we are able to put others first (Php. 2:13).

This is counter-cultural leadership. And the beauty of it is that it’s effortless. When we truly find our security in Christ, it radically shifts our view of success. When the struggles come, our task is primarily to be faithful and obedient to him. We depend on his grace and can leave the results to him. If our struggle results in us dying to ourselves (Gal. 2:20), then we are truly able to see exponential fruit in our lives and leadership. And, with Paul, we’ll be able to say, “For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all” (2 Cor. 4:17).

I hope you have enjoyed the Effortless series. I hope to explore this topic further so I would welcome any comments or feedback. To make it an effortless experience, click here to send me a message.

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Effortless Part 3: Strive and Surrender

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I believe that Christian leaders can live with impact beyond their human effort because of the power of God working in and through them. When their focus is on glorifying God, Christian leaders can experience exponential fruit. As we are seeing in this series of articles, it is often in the tension of seeming paradoxes that we find the key to leading with exponential impact.

Luis Palau (1934-2021) was an Argentinian evangelist who shared the Gospel with more than 25 million people in over 70 nations.[1] He embodied the effortless paradigm: he had an exponential impact beyond his human effort which brought much glory to God. In his 2019 book, effectively a memoir written in conversation with Paul J Pastor after he had been diagnosed with terminal cancer, Palau speaks of a point early in his ministry when he had almost burned out and was seeing his labours no longer bear fruit. He shares:

“I had reached the end of my efforts, knowing that for all my trying, I was not really pleasing God. He wanted more than just my natural gifting or commitment. He wanted me. For the first time in my life, I thought that I knew what it might mean to surrender to Him.”[2]

The point where Luis Palau’s ministry began to have an exponential impact was when he reached the end of his own efforts and completely surrendered to God. Surrendering is not normally an image associated with leadership. Surrender is usually seen as a sign of defeat. Modern leadership gurus are reluctant to speak about defeat. This would be seen as a weakness. However, within the effortless paradigm of leadership, we see that surrendering is the key that unlocks true spiritual strength.

Another Christian leader who has a global ministry is Nick Vujicic. Uninhibited by having no arms or legs, Vujicic’s ministry, Life without Limbs, estimates that they have shared the gospel with more than 733 million people since 2005. In his book, Unstoppable, Vujicic helps us understand why surrendering is so critical for Christian leaders who seek to operate in the effortless paradigm:

“Surrendering is about giving up the illusion that you are in the driver’s seat…it is an illusion to think you can determine what happens to you and around you… I believe that when you surrender your life in full, with complete trust and patience, there is another great reward that comes your way: God’s strength… surrender brings strength.”[3]

Therefore, a biblical view of surrendering is that it’s not a passive act of defeat. Rather, it is an active choice to commit oneself fully to Christ. The decision to surrender fully to Jesus is the means through which we receive spiritual strength. As Jesus said, “For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will find it” (Mt. 16:25).

It is in Paul’s example of leadership that we learn what it means to truly live a surrendered life. Paul was totally surrendered to Jesus. He wrote, “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me” (Gal. 2:20). Yet in surrendering, he was far from passive. In fact, we could argue that he was the most active Christian who ever lived. From this platform of surrender, Paul was 100% committed to the cause of the gospel. He was driven by the mission God had given him to see the church established and grow in cities across the world, no matter the extreme personal cost.

In Colossians 1:29 Paul says, “To this end I also labor, striving according to His working which works in me mightily” (NKJV). The word translated “striving” is ἀγωνιζόμενος (agōnizomenos) and means to contend and struggle. It is a word denoting competitiveness, taken from the Greek gymnasium and is a root of the English word agonize. This is effort on steroids as Paul contends for the emerging church to come to maturity in the faith.

The harmonising of surrendering and striving fully comes to bear when we understand that Christian striving is not for self-gain but for the cause of the Gospel. Christian leaders’ lives are surrendered to a cause beyond themselves, and they strenuously pursue this mission. Heidi Baker, a missionary to Mozambique who has had an exponential global impact through her ministry, says,

“None of us should want to build our own ministries – that is the opposite of what God called us to. We are called in love and meekness to establish God’s kingdom on Earth.”[4]

Contemporary secular leaders may strive for personal success or even a worthy cause. They may make tremendous sacrifices for the noble cause they choose to live for. But what should set Christian leaders apart is that our striving flows from a surrendered life. And when we strive for the glory of God, then, just like Palau, Vujicic and Paul (and countless other women and men throughout history), we can experience exponential fruit for Christ. When we see that fruit, we will realise that our role has been effortless because it has been the “energy of Christ so powerfully working in and through me” (Col. 1:29b NIV) that has accomplished fruit for the kingdom of God.

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Luis_Palau

[2] Palau: A Life on Fire with Paul J Pastor. 2019, Zondervan, Grand Rapids: MI.

[3] Unstoppable: The Incredible Power of Faith in Action. Nick Vujicic. 2012. WaterBrook Press, Colorado Springs CO.

[4] Compelled by Love. Heidi Baker. 2008. Charisma House Book Group. Florida.

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Effortless Part 2: Working While Waiting

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In the first article of this series, I introduced the effortless paradigm. This is the sweet spot of effective leadership, where God’s abundant blessing ensures that the fruit of our labours is exponentially disproportionate to the effort. This is a counter-cultural approach to leadership because it causes us to recognise that leadership is not about me.

Rather, fruitful leadership is proportionate to our dependence on God. However, that does not mean we are idle. We are called to partner with God and play the part he is calling us to play within his cosmic mandate. Therefore, I concluded the first article by proposing that the key to having an exponential impact through our life and leadership is learning to live in the biblical paradoxes of waiting and working; striving and surrender; struggle and security. We start by considering how Christian leadership requires both waiting on God while working for God.

I remember the night with absolute clarity. I lay in my bed somewhat panic-stricken. Anxiety was crippling my mind as I came to terms with the long-term impact of the diagnosis I’d received. Although not life-threatening, chronic fatigue syndrome meant I was facing an uncertain future. I had been quite severely debilitated and in pain for some months. As a 19-year-old young man, hard-wired to be an activist-achiever, I struggled to understand God’s purpose in allowing me to have a prolonged illness when I should be entering the prime of life. In my confusion, I cried out to God.

It’s always hard to describe the deepest spiritual encounters with God. Sometimes words are insufficient and I’ve always found it almost impossible to explain how God met with me on my bed of illness and anxiety that night. It literally felt like a blanket of love was placed around me to comfort me. And I experienced absolute peace that God was in control. He assured me that this was part of his plan and purpose for me. Through this encounter, he transformed my perspective. I realised that God’s love for me was not conditional on what I could do for him. Even if I spent the rest of my life unable to do things for him (e.g., run the youth group, lead the sports ministry I’d started, even attend church), that didn’t change how he felt about me.

Over the next couple of years, as I began to recover from the illness, I recognised that my activity for God needed to emanate from this revelation that God loved me unconditionally. My doing was not to earn his favour, rather it was an act of worshipful gratitude for his love and all he had done for me. It’s a lesson God has had to remind me of countless times since.

For so many leaders, our identity is wrapped up in our work and activity. We find our value and sense of worth in the work of leadership. The danger in this is that there is a very fine line between working for God out of love for him and working for God to earn his approval. When seeking to earn his approval, we will operate from our own efforts rather than dependence on the Holy Spirit. We may experience some short-term success but it is unlikely that we will see lasting fruit or experience exponential impact beyond our labour (see 1 Cor. 3:12–15).

Effortless leadership, on the other hand, starts from the position of obeying the biblical instruction to wait on God (given consistently to leaders throughout scripture e.g., Ex. 14:14, Ps. 37:9, Ps. 40:1, Hab. 2:3, Mt. 14:23, 2 Pet. 3:8–10). Our identity and sense of self-worth should not be wrapped up in our work and accomplishments. It is rather intrinsically connected to our position as sons and daughters of God (Rom. 8:15–17). The posture of waiting on God is consistently presented in scripture as the appropriate starting point for all effective and fruitful ministry. Waiting on God is essential to counteract the temptation to focus on success, numbers, profit or any other metrics related to our work for him.

However, the biblical counsel to wait on God does not call us to a life of disengagement from the world. Instead, waiting on God provides the impetus for our work, recognising there is a biblical mandate upon us to work hard for the cause of the Gospel. Jesus himself instructs us; “As long as it is day, we must do the works of him who sent me” (John 9:4).

The nineteenth-century South African pastor and church statesman, Andrew Murray, oversaw a spiritual renewal which started in the small town of Wellington and went on to have a global impact. Murray worked tirelessly with incredible zeal and passion as a pastor and evangelist. Through his example and his writings, there has been exponential fruit far beyond his effort by which God continues to receive much glory. I feel that the secret to his fruitfulness was that he understood how to live in the tension between waiting and working. Among his many writings, he wrote two small devotional guides. The first was called, Waiting on God and the second, Working for God. In the introduction to the second volume, he harmonises the states of waiting and working by stating the following:

“Waiting on God has its value in that it makes us strong in work for God… as waiting on God lies at the root of all true working for God, so working for God must be the fruit of all true waiting on Him.” (Andrew Murray, Working for God, p. 1–2).[1]

The apostle Paul was another man of action. Following his dramatic conversion, he worked tirelessly to extend the Gospel around the world. However, he didn’t define his success by virtue of his hard work. Rather, he defined it as follows: “But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace to me was not without effect. No, I worked harder than all of them – yet not I, but the grace of God that was with me”. (1 Cor. 15:10).

Paul’s work for God flowed out of God’s work in him. Paul’s dependence on God’s grace came as he waited on God and discovered that God’s grace alone was sufficient for him (2 Cor. 12:9). However, that led him to work tirelessly, instructing us to do the same (e.g., 1 Cor. 15:58).

Waiting on God in order to work for God is the antidote to seeking salvation by merit. It is also the antidote for leaders whose self-worth is tied up in their productivity. By grace, God has chosen us for “good works which he has prepared in advance for us to do” (Eph. 2:10).

It’s not a choice between waiting or working. The Christian life is an inextricable combination of these two states of being: we wait and work; we work while waiting. Sometimes there are seasons where the emphasis is on waiting on God. There are other seasons of incredibly productive work. The temptation for leaders is to keep working without ever waiting. Therefore, in this area, I advise we need to afford ourselves extra accountability in order that we can see God work mightily through us, meaning that we’ll see our work is effortless in comparison to the exponential fruit harvested for the kingdom.

[1] See www.grabatowel.site/2023/07/26/working-while-waiting-leadership-gems-from-andrew-murray/ for more helpful quotes from these books.

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Effortless: Leading with Exponential Impact

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This is the first in a series of four articles. I want to develop this theme into a book. Please send any feedback to [email protected]

We settled down as a family in great anticipation. It was 1984 and I was nine years old. The Sarajevo Winter Olympics were in full flow. As a British family there wasn’t much to cheer for. We didn’t have great skiers, bobsledders or speed skaters. However, we did have our sights on one gold medal; figure-skaters, Jane Torvill and Christopher Dean carried the hopes of a nation desperate for success as they took to the ice for their final routine. We held our collective breath for the next few minutes as Torvill and Dean glided around the rink with flawless synchronisation to the evocative tones of the song Boléro. Upon completion, the crowd showered flowers on the ice in appreciation of the perfection they displayed. The judges sealed the historic moment by rewarding them with the highest scores ever achieved by figure skaters. In our house, and across the nation, we marvelled at how effortless they made it seem.

The perception of effortlessness was only accomplished because they had put in years of hard work. When they received their gold medals they embodied a philosophy of the modern era: effort = rewards.

This philosophy has shaped the 10,000 hours mantra that became popular in the early 21st century through the writing of Michael Gladwell. Following his theory, former international table tennis player, Matthew Syed, writes.

“the path to excellence… is steep, gruelling, and arduous. It is inordinately lengthy, requiring a minimum of ten thousand hours of lung-busting effort to get to the summit.” (Syed, Bounce, 2010:168).

It is easy to see how this approach to life has been embraced by 21st Century Christian leaders. Schooled in the Protestant ethic of hard work and imbibed within the cultural climate of the constant pursuit of success, the goals of most Christian leaders don’t often appear much different from their unbelieving counterparts. It is not uncommon for this philosophy to also encroach on our ministry, believing that our results are determined by a combination of our giftedness and effort.

Superficially, it may appear there is nothing wrong with these ideals. Yet, I have some nagging questions. What if the results we are seeing in our lives are a fraction of what God has for us? What if we are merely leading a merry dance of performance-based Christianity, akin to secular ambition? What if the way we disciple people is leading them to greater dependence on themselves rather than the Holy Spirit? What if life in Christ is meant to be different from the simple equation of success being directly proportional to the amount of effort we put in?

I believe it’s time to rethink how we view the success-based (Western-influenced) worldview, particularly in relation to how we approach leadership. We need to have our minds renewed (Romans 12:2). I believe that we are called to lead with exponential impact that is disproportionate to our efforts. In fact, Scripture doesn’t use the language of success but of fruitfulness. The source of fruitfulness is not our effort, but reliance on the Holy Spirit. In this paradigm, the end goal is not popularity and plaudits, but Spirit-inspired, God-exalting worship.

I believe this approach to life and leadership emanates throughout the whole of the bible. The scene is set in Genesis. From the mandate to Adam and Eve to be fruitful and multiply (Genesis 1:28), through to God’s promise to Abraham that his descendants would be countless, and a blessing to the whole world (Genesis 12:2-3). Then in Genesis 26:12, we see a physical example of the effortless principle in action where the Lord blesses Isaac and provides him with a life-changing hundredfold harvest. The language here provides the context for Jesus’ promise that those who receive the good seed of the Gospel will produce a crop… “some thirty, some sixty, some a hundred times what was sown” (Mark 4:20). Jesus is clearly not talking about personal prosperity but about Kingdom fruitfulness. The fruit was disproportionate to the effort because it is based upon receiving and believing the Word! As Jesus went on to say in John 15:8, “This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.”

I describe this approach to leadership as the effortless paradigm. It’s not that there is no effort on our part. Rather, the fruit is disproportionate to our effort to the extent that, when observing what is happening, we have to admit that we played a minor role which, in reality, was effortless. The effortless paradigm is embodied in the beautiful promise of Isaiah 60:22, “The least of you will become a thousand and the smallest a mighty nation. I am the LORD; in its time I will do this swiftly.”

The effortless paradigm is a counter-cultural approach to life, ministry and leadership which starts with laying down our own selfish ambition and committing to a life of Gospel ambition. When we look at this objectively, who wouldn’t want to live effortlessly? When we operate in the success paradigm, it leads to the all-too-common results of exhaustion, frustration, anxiety, stress and burnout. But when we live a Spirit-empowered life that is dependent upon Christ, it enables us to have a sustained impact for the long haul.

I believe that this is what Jesus meant when he referred to the abundant life in John 10:10. It is also the kind of faith that Paul exhorts us to have as we trust in God who can do immeasurably more than we ask or imagine, because His power works within us (Ephesians 3:20).

This should be our testimony to the world; that the fruitfulness of our lives is not dependent on how smart we are or how much effort we have had to put in. Rather, the fruit is disproportionate to our effort and therefore, by comparison, it is effortless because all fruitfulness is a gift of God’s grace and declares his glory. Richard Foster put it like this,

“…one of the clearest signs of the grace of God upon us is when the results of our labour are far in excess of the amount of work we do” (Foster 1992:183).

So, what am I advocating then? Is the Christian life a spectator sport where we sit and observe God at work while we laze around? Not at all! In the next few articles, I want to explore three paradoxes of effortless leadership which are tensions that we live with as those on mission with Jesus. It is in the seeming paradoxes of waiting and working; striving and surrender; struggle and security that we find the sweet spot for Kingdom fruitfulness.